This is — by far — the single most often searched phrase that ultimately leads people to my site.

I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that if you’ve arrived here from using this search term then odds are you’re probably a guy with a 5–6 inch cock and have seen a few porn videos or pictures and wonder why yours doesn’t look like the guys in those videos, or you may wonder if yours will ever get that big, or if there’s anything you can do to make yours any bigger.

There’s a saying that goes, “if a woman tells you size doesn’t matter then only thing you can be certain of is that she’s lying.” I’m not going to lie to you. To some women the size of your johnson definitely matters to them. (Same for gay men, too.)

Some women and gay men are simply attracted to guys with large cocks.

Newsflash though: some men are attracted to redheads, blondes, or women with large breasts, big butts, long hair, freckles, and more!

But in the grand scheme of things does the size of your cock matter?

Of course not.

First off, if someone breaks up with someone over the size of their cock, I sure as hell know I would be kissing the ground where I stand, thankful in the fact I found out how much of an idiot that person was I was dating before things with that person got even more serious.

Second, would you rather be with someone that loves and respects you for who you are, or would you want to be with someone that only wants you to be someone you’re not? It’s like saying that the size of your feet matter in a relationship. I guess they would, if you were dating a shoe.

Third, some women (and men!) love a bigger cock because it “feels better” when you’re having sex.

A much larger portion of the population wouldn’t dare to have sex with you (if you’ve got a large penis) because on the flip-side they’d be afraid of you hurting them.

Guys: instead of worrying about the size of your penis, pay attention to the parts of you you actually have control over and can change.

Put your lover first. Make sure their needs are met before yours (both inside the bedroom and beyond). You don’t need a big dick to show somebody how much you care for them, or how much you love them or appreciate them.

If your girlfriend or boyfriend truly loves you, they’re not going to care what size your dick is. Sure, you may think having a larger cock will allow you to please your lover more, but the largest sexual organ you and your partner’s got isn’t between either of your legs. It’s on top of your shoulders.

If you’re still concerned about the size of your dick, feel free to contact me and let’s discuss it.

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Dear Guys,

Hi! It’s me, Mike. I’m writing to you today because I’d like to try to share with you something, and try to convince you of something else.

Whether you have a 13 ½” penis like Jonah Falcon, a foot-longer like me, 9″ like Ken Ryker, or the 7″, 6″, or 5″ that you probably are, a couple of things I know are for certain:

A) Man is not measured by the size of his penis.
B) Some things in life can’t be controlled.
C) If you truly want to get laid more, and be known as a sexual god, put your partner’s sexual needs before yours.

I’m not going to tell you that size doesn’t matter here, I’m sure for some it does. After all, if size didn’t matter there wouldn’t be a slew of men who weren’t attracted to big breasts, and the occasional man or woman who wasn’t attracted to a large cock.

But let’s take a step back here for a second, can we?

Why does it matter so much in the first place?

Look, I’m tall. 6′2″. I know for a fact there are more than a few guys who wouldn’t even give me the time of day based on my height alone. But newsflash guys, we can’t change our height lest we wish to subject ourselves to medieval torture.

I’ve also got big ears. In fact, I hate my ears. Always have. If there was one part on my body that I wish I could change it’d be my ears. But newsflash, I can’t easily change my ears not without undergoing expensive (and painful) plastic surgery.

And, I have a big dick.

But let me tell you how I got my dick.

It wasn’t through prayer. It wasn’t through pills. No crémes, no ointments, no lotions.

No stretching, no exercising, no “jelqing”, no weights.

Just two loving people who got married, fucked, and had a baby.

Now, here’s the news flash: I have been turned down for sex more times in my life both as a teenager and as an adult the moment someone saw my cock … than not.

Why is that?

Could it be simply because when something or someone is “out of the ordinary” they then become an oddity? A curiosity? Something to study, or admire?

See, you guys think you’re going to have your pick of any hot chick or guy walking down the street if only you had a larger penis.

Uh, why?

Do you honestly think a large “basket” will make you attractive? Trust me guys, the only looks a large basket draws to one’s-self are looks of disgust.

It’s the psychology of fear or jealousy I suppose.

Marketers have done an amazing job convincing women that only if they’d do this or do that then their husbands and boyfriends will love them more or would want to stay with them.

Um, hello?!

Marketers know that men are naturally competitive and some will endlessly try to one-up another. There’s always a few of us who can’t stand to have a big screen TV that’s 1″ smaller than our brother or our neighbors’.

But bigger is not always better.

Since the prostate is only located about 1½” inside the anus, on the other side of the colon, and since the G-Spot is only about 3″ inside the vagina — let’s not forget that the vagina in itself is only about 5″ long, but men seem to forget that there’s so much more to a woman’s anatomy than her vagina — hello, fellas! You’re forgetting her clitoris and vulva, and for that you don’t even need to step inside.

So let’s do some simple math here…

How big of a dick are you going to need in order to adequately stimulate your partner?

If you’re smart, you won’t even need one. You think I’m kidding? Then you haven’t met any lesbians.

Please understand this fellas, there is no pill that’s going to help you. Use your head here for one second (I’m talking about the one you DON’T piss with):

IF ALL THOSE PENIS ENLARGEMENT PILLS WORKED WE WOULD LIVE IN A WORLD WHERE ALLMOST GUYS WOULD HAVE INSANELY LARGE DICKS.

You know you’ve checked out the guy next to you at the bathroom before. There’s just not that many of us (those of us with large dicks) around is there?

Want to know why? Because genetics has a funny way of working out that way. After thousands of years things seems to average out.

Of course, doesn’t explain an occasional Yao Ming being discovered.

THERE ARE NO EXERCISES THAT ARE GOING TO PROVIDE YOU WITH PERMANENT AND APPRECIABLE RESULTS TO MAKE YOUR PENIS BIGGER.

Want to know why?

BECAUSE YOUR PENIS ISN’T A MUSCLE.

It has no muscular tissue.

Exercise strengthens muscles.

Your penis isn’t a muscle.

It has no muscular tissue.

DO YOU REALLY WANT TO RISK PERMANENT AND PHYSICAL DAMAGE AND INJURY TO YOUR PENIS WITH “CONTRAPTIONS”?

Let’s be real here.

Torsion machines, tensioners, stretchers…

What the hell do you think they’re going to do?

Your penis is an organ comprised of dozens and dozens of layers of tissue.

Some fibrous, nerves, arteries, veins, skin, fat.

No bones.

No muscles.

Cells and organs have to be told when to grow, and a lot of it happens during puberty.

So while I’m not a physician, I’m hunching that unless you’re in puberty now, trying to stretch your cock out isn’t going to have much luck. You’re not Mr. Fantastic and besides, if that were the case than the medieval rack wouldn’t have been such the torture device that it used to be.

WOULD YOU WANT TO RISK HAVING YOUR PENIS LOOK LIKE THIS:

Penis pumps work by vacuum pressure causing tissue to expand.

This expansion is neither permanent nor healthy, and can be downright dangerous. Seriously guys, do you want your penis to look like this:

SO HOW DID WE GET HERE?

Porn!

You watch it. You know you do. I watch it. I’m guessing that no matter what your orientation is, as that cock is pounding that mouth or hole you’re studying it.

Comparing yourself to it.

Recognize that the guy getting sucked off probably doesn’t have a dick much bigger than your own. It’s amazing what can be done with camera lenses, angles, lights, makeup, and Final Cut Pro.

Don’t believe me? Check out this blog post from someone who’s actually in the porn industry.

SO HOW CAN I GET A LARGER PENIS?

Fine. If you really want to know, if you’re really all that curious, there’s a simple way without having to spend any money: LOSE SOME FUCKING WEIGHT.

Seriously.

If you’re more than 20 lbs overweight, forget about your cock and get your ass into shape first.

Why?

Because when you do, you’ll notice inches will then magically appear.

There’s a lot of fat sitting on top of the collective cocks of most Americans. As the above illustration depicts, the penis can become literally buried.

Your own personal Jabbah The Hut.

Seriously guys, get your ass into shape and you won’t even NEED to think about wanting to make your dick any larger.

BUT I STILL WANT A LARGER PENIS

Yeah, and I’d prefer to have smaller ears, but you know what? There are lot more important things in life than to fret over and worry about an aspect of our lives which we have no control.

Face it guys. Most of you are between 5-7 inches. Some of you are between 3-4″ or 8-9″.

Even less of you are under 3″ or over 9″, and one in a million or so of us has got a micropenis, or one that you could tie a knot with.

Instead of trying to change aspects of your life that you have no control over, why not concentrate on those parts that you actually can. Be more kind, generous, giving, loving, mentoring, watchful, earnest, respectful, calm, sincere, gentile, progressive, healthy, and welcoming. Trust me guys, do these things and it won’t matter what size your cock is.

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This morning I was logged into Facebook chat using Adium and had an interesting conversation with one of my friends/ followers. I say interesting, because I know the guy didn’t mean anything by it but…

Check out the conversation:

6:53:44 AM XXXXXXXXXX: im good i was looking at ur page and under ur pic i saw (queer, pagan, android, with a big dick, a bigger heart, and a small ego) where did u get that from

6:54:35 AM cyberczar@gmail.com: it’s my tag-line/ synopsis/ bio. pretty much sums me up in all sense and fashions.

6:54:47 AM cyberczar@gmail.com: i didn’t get it from anywhere. i came up with it.

6:55:41 AM XXXXXXXXXX: oh i just saw where 1 part of it is from…..Dang that is big if u dont mind me saying

6:56:24 AM XXXXXXXXXX: ?

6:57:43 AM cyberczar@gmail.com: i get that reaction sometimes.

6:58:47 AM XXXXXXXXXX: how can u handle that thing by urself and u can put an eye out

6:59:34 AM cyberczar@gmail.com: not sure i understand ur question.

7:01:06 AM XXXXXXXXXX: thats a big thing ….. not just one hand can hold that lmao ……. and if u do anything u can put somebody eye out lol

7:02:40 AM cyberczar@gmail.com: uh… ok. fortunately i’ve never poked anyone’s eye out. would be embarrasing to explain to a judge or doctor how that would’ve happened.

7:03:00 AM XXXXXXXXXX: lol yea true

7:03:21 AM cyberczar@gmail.com: and you know, my leg is 34” long. fortunately i’ve never poked anyone’s eye out with it either.

7:03:48 AM XXXXXXXXXX: lol ur funny

…

…

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7:16:51 AM XXXXXXXXXX: man i bet u hurt ur husband with that thing ouch

7:17:32 AM cyberczar@gmail.com: nope.

The guy I chatted with this morning was sweet enough, and I’m assuming genuinely curious, but what is it about the Internet that seems to throw all sense of etiquette-ness out the window?

I guess it’s kinda like how people are drawn to a pregnant woman’s stomach and everyone and their mother wants to approach them and touch their bellies, it’s like what gives, you know?

So anyways… those of you with normal sized cocks be thankful for this: at least you don’t have guys (and girls) thinking you’re just a penis first and a man second.

So what do you think?  Am I over-reacting?

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Can having an unusually large penis subject someone to sexual harassment? Could it be protected by the ADA?

I ask because I had an interesting conversation today with my boss (VP & General Counsel for my Company), and our head of HR. It seems someone has complained to HR about “[my] appearance.” This wouldn’t be the first time something like this has happened at a place where I work.

Now I’m in management, so there’s a certain amount of decorum and professionalism that’s expected from me and all my peers. We’re supposed to toe the Company’s beliefs and philosophies, while at the same time trying to get as much productivity out of our employees and remain ever mindful of the bottom line and our expenses. Especially expenses, because my group brings in absolutely no revenue, but is never-the-less an important part of the Company. I say this because it’s important to understand something: I wear a suit & tie to work, except on Casual Fridays when I wear slacks & a golf shirt.

I allow my employees to dress casually, and that’s perfectly accepted by the Company’s culture. My physical security folks have to wear a uniform, but then again they’re contractors.

So I was called into the head of HR’s office this afternoon, and joining me was my boss.

When they told me they had received a complaint about me, naturally I asked what it was about.

It seems one of my employees could see the outline of my penis in my pants fabric during a meeting and felt it inappropriate for the workplace.

This prompted a rather defensive and interesting debate let me tell you. The head of our HR is a woman, and I’ve got to tell you I couldn’t have felt more embarrassed followed quickly by a touch of anger at what was happening.

I wasn’t being accused of sexual harassment (although I was told the complaint was bordeline).

I wasn’t even being accused of being aroused either (which I could at least understand … albeit slightly.)

No, I was being accused of unconsciously allowing the outline of a natural part of my body to become visible through my pants.

It’s not like I’m not aware of my penis 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Heaven forbid I was sexually aroused, the person who complained (I don’t know for sure who it was but I have an idea) would have probably called the cops.

So I might have put a few nails in my coffin, but I couldn’t help but inform HR lady that I wished to lob a complaint myself, but unlike what she was doing I was willing to grant the accuser the decency of facing her accused.

She said it would be inappropriate for me to file a complaint against one of my employees since this process had now started, so you should have seen the look on her face when I told her it wasn’t against any of my employees.

“So who’s it against?” she asked.

“You.”

My boss kind of got a bit agitated, but I was trying to prove a point (and I think I did as you’ll find out).

So, when she asked me what my complaint against her was, I told her it was about her breasts. That as a gay man, I was offended by them, and her overtly displays of feminism.

She’s not blonde, but she’s quite buxomed. Not like I really thought about her breasts much before today’s meeting mind you.

So when she told me that they were a part of her body, I earnestly reminded her that we were meeting today about someone’s complaint about a part of my body, too. I also pointed out to her that she had an option to get breast reduction surgery, whereas I have no options.

I then asked my boss if I had ever made him uncomfortable, and he told me no. I think he was being honest.

I asked HR lady if I had ever made her uncomfortable, and she said no.

I also stood up and asked either one of them if they could see anything (thank the Gods I wore loose fitting pants today!) and HR lady said no. You should have seen the look on her face though when I pressed my pants into my thigh and DID show them the outline.

I told ‘em both if they want to fire me, then fire me, but there’s nothing I can do more than what I’ve already done, and asked them both that if they want to pursue this further that this sounds to me like it would be discrimination.

I’m not going to go into specifics as to why I think might have lodged a complaint. I think I know who it was, but it really doesn’t matter. This person has made it clear to me they do not approve of my religion, my political persuasion, or my lifestyle. Too bad for this person because I could care less what they think, and I try to be objective enough not to let personal feelings interfere with professional obligations.

So what do you think? What would you have done in this situation?

Pax,

Mike

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A Newburgh firefighter became an ad hoc surgeon Friday, called upon to use a pneumatic saw to cut a piece of steel pipe off a 73-year-old man’s penis.

You’ve got to be asking yourself — as I am — just what the fuck is going on here?

Is it a penis-pump gone awry?

Some sort of lengthening apparatus?  Torsion?

Who the fuck knows, but I can only imaging the paperwork after that call:

Apparently Firefighters chose a “wizzer saw” (you can’t make this shit up).

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You know the myth that black guys typically have larger penises? Not true, and it does a brother harm to continue to perpetuate that racial stereotype.

Besides, in my experience it’s been latin guys (and to a smaller — ha! — extent Italians) tend to have the largest Johnsons.

So, when an article publised today in an online Nigerian newspaper called Vanguard appeared, I my curiosity was piqued.

Guys worry about the size of their cocks all over the world. Europe, Asia, North America, South America, Africa. Hell, I’m sure there’s some guys with penis envy down in Antarctica at McMurdo Base too!

And you know what? Most seem to agree that size really doesn’t matter.

What do you think? — [Vanguard]

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I often wonder, are guys with normal-sized dicks constantly reminded of theirs?  Let me explain.

I’ve got two feet.  I know that they’re there, but I don’t constantly think about them.  In fact, unless I trip or otherwise stub my toe, my feet propel me from point “A” to point “B” without so much as a second thought.

Take my ears next.  I know I’ve got them as well, but unless my partner is gently stroking them or gently nibbling on them, I don’t consciously know that they’re there.

Sure, I can feel them when I’m wearing my sunglasses, or if I run my fingers through my hair, but the point is that consciously, they’re a part of my body that I rarely give a second thought to.

Now my nose is a little different.   If I look down, I can see the sides of my nose and the tip of my nose through my very own eyes.  My nose constantly reminds me that I’ve got allergies, and it has an overabundant desire to itch which is constantly causing me to rub it with my fingers.

But other than that, my nose is just one of those parts of my body that for the most part minds its own business.

Not my penis though.

I am constantly reminded of my penis.  It makes me aware of its presence morning, noon, and night.

I also have to take special precautions sometimes when I’m out in public or lest someone think I’m a pervert, horny, carrying a concealed weapon (you laugh but it happened once.), or any combination of the three.

I am always cognizant of its presence and state.  It’s the most neediest part of my body next to, say my mouth with its own cravings for food followed by: brushing, and flossing, and gargling, and rinsing, and kissing, and licking, and sucking, and eating, and swallowing…

No, my penis it seems is always fighting to get my attention.  Even now, as I sit here writing this post, my penis is stirring in my pants, taunting me to adjust it.

All of this is fine and good I’m assuming for most guys.  Then again, I guess most guys don’t need to worry about what looks like a night-stick stuck in their pants if they sport an erection.

As any mature adult knows, every one of us constantly goes through states of sexual arousal throughout the day.  For no apparent reason.

Yes ladies, whether or not we’re thinking of sex or not, our bodies might get sexually aroused on our own behalf.

I don’t know if this is true, but a friend of mine who was in pre-med at the time told me that barring anything physical abnormalities, a guy’s penis wants to naturally be erect.  That, in fact, when we’re unconscious penises will normally become erect whether or not there’s anything sexual going on.  That to stay soft, the penis requires a conscious effort to do so.

This, I’m sure, explains a lot.  Like how we are usually hard right when we wake up in the morning.

Point being, there’s not a day that goes by where I’m not consciously trying to conceal either a semi or full-blown (no pun intended) hardon in public.

There’s not an hour that goes by where I’m not constantly being forced to adjust myself.

So the point of this post, and the reason for wondering is: are all guys constantly reminded of their penises?

Are women constantly reminded of their breasts?

Or are each part of one’s own body that we just naturally live with and work our lives around?

Or am I just a freak?

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• Welcome!

Today I’d like to talk about condoms and hopefully get a dialog started.

If you’re big, and by big I’m talking about your penis is longer than 8″/ 20 ㎝, then you no doubt understand how difficult it can be sometimes to (a) buy a condom that fits, and (b) buy a condom that’s comfortable.

I’ve tried them all. Durex, Trojans, Lifestyles. I personally prefer Durex XXL, but my partner prefers Trojan Magnum XLs.

Even with the Durexes, I still have a good 3+ inches of my shaft unsheathed with them on. Unfortunately, not every store carries the XXLs, and my partner’s Trojans’ tend to hurt. Cock rings are great and all, but not when you’ve got one ⅓ the way down your pole.

So what do you think? What do you prefer?

And for those who might be wondering why my partner and I still use condoms even though we’re in a monogamous relationship, it’s simple really. Cleanup.

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• Welcome!

Hey folks!

Welcome back to the re-launch of Size Really Does Matter! The site was launched originally last year, but suffered a major technical snafu which erased all posts.

So now, I’m re-launching the site again and have taken measures to ensure those technical malfunctions don’t crop up again!

So let’s refresh some things here a bit, shall we?

Size Really Does Matter — SRDM — is a site for… well… large guys. No, I’m not talking about a guy’s waist-line (although that particular measurement is growing dangerously too large in many areas in and of itself.)

Nope.

Go a little lower.

Schwi’ing!

SRDM is for those guys who are… well… packing. Guys with large penises.

This is not a sex-site.

Any pictures of guys and their Johnsons’ are presented for clinical and educational purposes only.

No rating of anyone’s rod, shaft, bulge, or member.

No offers to hook-up, massage, or otherwise frolic.

Nope.

Serious discussions only about anything and everything having to do with a guy’s large penis written by guys — with large penises — for our friends, family, significant others, supporters, and anyone else who might be curious.

Feel Free To Contribute!

Any registered member (either registering directly with SizeReallyDoesMatter.net or using an OpenID) is entitled to contribute and post a story or anecdote.

Readers who don’t wish to become members may submit news articles or questions by using the form on the left-side of this page.

Questions or comments about this site, or its contents, can be directed to Michael Collins.

Thanks,

Mike

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