This is — by far — the single most often searched phrase that ultimately leads people to my site.
I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that if you’ve arrived here from using this search term then odds are you’re probably a guy with a 5–6 inch cock and have seen a few porn videos or pictures and wonder why yours doesn’t look like the guys in those videos, or you may wonder if yours will ever get that big, or if there’s anything you can do to make yours any bigger.
There’s a saying that goes, “if a woman tells you size doesn’t matter then only thing you can be certain of is that she’s lying.” I’m not going to lie to you. To some women the size of your johnson definitely matters to them. (Same for gay men, too.)
Some women and gay men are simply attracted to guys with large cocks.
Newsflash though: some men are attracted to redheads, blondes, or women with large breasts, big butts, long hair, freckles, and more!
But in the grand scheme of things does the size of your cock matter?
Of course not.
First off, if someone breaks up with someone over the size of their cock, I sure as hell know I would be kissing the ground where I stand, thankful in the fact I found out how much of an idiot that person was I was dating before things with that person got even more serious.
Second, would you rather be with someone that loves and respects you for who you are, or would you want to be with someone that only wants you to be someone you’re not? It’s like saying that the size of your feet matter in a relationship. I guess they would, if you were dating a shoe.
Third, some women (and men!) love a bigger cock because it “feels better” when you’re having sex.
A much larger portion of the population wouldn’t dare to have sex with you (if you’ve got a large penis) because on the flip-side they’d be afraid of you hurting them.
Guys: instead of worrying about the size of your penis, pay attention to the parts of you you actually have control over and can change.
Put your lover first. Make sure their needs are met before yours (both inside the bedroom and beyond). You don’t need a big dick to show somebody how much you care for them, or how much you love them or appreciate them.
If your girlfriend or boyfriend truly loves you, they’re not going to care what size your dick is. Sure, you may think having a larger cock will allow you to please your lover more, but the largest sexual organ you and your partner’s got isn’t between either of your legs. It’s on top of your shoulders.
If you’re still concerned about the size of your dick, feel free to contact me and let’s discuss it.